Dear You...Love, Me | Vol. 4 | Me
August 04, 2018 • Dear You Love Me
Dear Me,
Congratulations!
You're slowly getting back on track. I know it's been a rough road to travel, but you're finally back on your feet! So, give yourself a pat on the back and here are a few reminders before you turn a year older in 2 months.
Baby Steps. Don't rush it. Nothing good comes out of anything that's rush and done on impulse. Your whole life has been about doing what you want when you want. Remember that your decisions are not just about YOU now. Remember that it's you and Avery now. Everything you do if for you and her.
Don't be too hard on yourself. STOP thinking that nobody loves you! Your emo days are over! WAKE UP! But kidding aside, stop thinking that nobody loves you because of all the wrong things you've done. You made wrong decisions in the past (and will probably make more in the future - hopefully not the same ones) but that does not mean that nobody loves you. Stop blaming yourself for things which you have no control over, but also learn how to own up to your mistakes. THAT IS LIFE. No need to blame yourself.
FAMILY is everything. You should know by now that no matter what happens, yo family go yo back! Keep this in mind and live it. It is one important value that you should teach your daughter. Show her that family should always come first.
Love yourself. Remember, it is your moral obligation to love yourself. Love yourself and know you're worth. Know your value and don't settle for less.
Be the person that you would want your daughter to be proud of.
Lastly, PRAY. Give thanks ALWAYS.
Natually, there are still a lot more hurdles to overcome in the future. Just remember that it's not the end of the world and STOP ACTING LIKE IT IS everytime you are in a rut. It is just a phase and it shall pass.
Copish?
Love,
Alex
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This open letter does not wish to accomplish anything. This is merely a series created by Alex Carpio for www.ticktockitslocked.com and for her peace of mind.
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Friday's 10 Happy Things | 13
August 03, 2018 • Friday's 10 Happy Things
Hey it's back! Back again. :P Life's not interesting, as usual, but nevertheless, there are a lot of things to be thankful for! So here we go... Let's be thankful of the little things in life that make us happy!
1) The past few months have been a nightmare for me and my soul sister, Gab. After months of fighting and struggling, she and I are finally back on track. We've been a little lost and confused emotionally and literally since we've been trying to solve problems that are bigger than us and trying to figure out as to how we can save not just ourselves, but everyone involved. Fortunately for us, things have been getting better lately AND we hope it'll continue for us both. --- I think this has got to be the happiest thing of ALL!
2) Got to see Mt. Mayon in all its glory! Didn't happen this week, but since it's been awhile since I wrote this series, I am including this!
3) And this --- I got to see Manila Grey play live at Black Market! It was a crazy night of music and taking care of drunk friends. :P
4) Avery has been doing good with her therapy sessions! She's A LOT more sociable now and speaks more. She calls me "MAMA" now! I know it's no biggie given her age, but you guys have no idea how much that made my heart jump with joy!
5) Meteor Garden - 2018. WHY? WATCH IIITTTT NOW! I mean it! Or see why here!
6) Old Friends. After 2 years of not seeing each other, finally had a date night with these guys last night!
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7) This baby girl making faces with Mommy. <3
8) Round Up turned 1! Go and check out the site, will you? Like us on Facebook, too! And follow on Instagram!
9) Rekindled Friendship. After almost 7 years of not talking to a friend, finally had a chance to rekindle that relationship and it's been amazing :)
10) After all the hardships and mishaps, I am still alive. If that's not something to be happy for, then I don't know what is :D Also, my little princess just kissed me goodnight.
Share with me things that made you happy lately!
Goodnight and Happy Weekend!
Quick Getaway: Upper East Side (Antipolo)
August 01, 2018 • Places
And by upper east side, I just mean Upper Antipolo Rizal area. Pa-sosyal lang guys. :)
Anyway, I usually don't post about places I go to because I am so bad in documenting the important things that it's pretty much useless to blog about it, but this place is really a surprise to me and thought it was worth posting on the blog.
So, it was one fine morning with the fam and after 20-30 minutes of just cruising the road without anything but mountains and trees comes this hidden gem of a place in Boso-Boso, Antipolo Rizal. A rustic, homey hotel named after the place where it's built.
Boso-Boso Hotel or Boso-Boso Highlands Resort and Convention Center located along Marcos Highway (mind you, its a verrryyy looonngg highway) overlooking Boso-Boso valley and facing the Sierra Madre Mountain Ranges.
The place has a great view without all the city pollution. It was literally a breath of fresh air. It's a good (quick) getaway from the city without having to pass thru toll gates and such.
They have a simple breakfast menu (silogs and pastas) which I believe still has room for improvement (and I really hope they do improve it because then it would be a total package!) I got pancakes and bacon for me and Avery and everybody else got Tocilog, Tapsilog and Adobo. --- No, I don't have a photo of our food because again, going back to my intro, I am so bad at documenting things like this ~_~
After breakfast, Avery still wanted to stay because she was actually enjoying the view (she wasn't afraid of heights! It felt like my heart was on the floor every time she looked over the glass railing) We decided to have coffee and hot coco. Their coffee and cake selection actually compliment each other. Plus the interiors of the place, it gives you all that homey feels.
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Each table had a different painting! |
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Little princess enjoyed her mango shake --- it was a large serving and we had to ask for a smaller glass so she could drink it. |
Learn more about the place here. Drop by (remember to bring a jacket!) and let me know what you think!
Dear You... Love, Me | Vol. 3 | Frances Avery
July 13, 2018 • Dear Frances Avery, Dear You Love Me, Momma Diaries
I miss you. I really do. I know we haven't been together much lately because Mommy is super busy with work, but I'd like you to know that I miss you every minute of everyday! I only get to be with you less than half a day for the past week and just 3 days the week before.
I'm just happy that I still see that wide fang face smile every time you see me. In a few years time, you'll probably feel bad that I don't spend as much time with you, but let me reassure you that when that time comes, Mommy will make sure that she has much time with you than work. It's just that right now, Mommy needs to do a little more work and hustling so that we're ready when it's school time and when you grow up. Mommy needs to do a little more work so she can provide you with the best things she can. Remember that all that time I don't spend with you, I do it for you.
You've been doing good with therapy too! Your teacher says you talk to him now. Words aren't that clear but you try to talk to him more and even attempt to tell stories. You've improved A LOT in the past 5 months and it's actually Mommy who needs to do a little bit of homework. Your teacher thinks that I may not be consistent with our daily routine and that's all my fault. I promise I'll do better, OK?
Mommy's still at work now, but just finishing up a few things. I cannot wait to see you when I get home! I love you, Avery! <
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This open letter does not wish to accomplish anything. This is merely a series created by Alex Carpio for www.ticktockitslocked.com and for her peace of mind.
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Kate Spade Death: The Most Important Lesson We Should Learn
June 09, 2018 • Personal, Random, Round Up
This week, the fashion world was devastated when news broke out that designer and brand founder, Kate Spade committed suicide on June 5. In an article that appeared on CNN (June 6), Kate Brosnahan Spade, the known designer hanged herself at her Manhattan apartment and was later found by her housekeeper along with a suicide note that mentioned her daughter and husband.
Again, we lost a wonderful soul to depression.[/caption] Although, Kate Spade has no longer been part of the brand for a decade (Kate Spade is now owned by luxury brand, Coach) celebrities and other prominent people were quick to share their sentiments about the designers' sudden demise.
“Kate suffered from depression and anxiety for many years,” Andy said. “She was actively seeking help and working closely with her doctors to treat her disease, one that takes far too many lives. We were in touch with her the night before and she sounded happy. There was no indication and no warning that she would do this,” Andy continued." - Andy Spade, HollywoodLife.com

Very saddened to hear about the passing of Kate Spade. Mental illness does not discriminate and can happen to anyone with any circumstances. I hope she has found peace ❤— Lucy Hale (@lucyhale) June 5, 2018
Kate Spade was more than a designer. She had a quirky visual language that captivated Bat Mitzvah girls and artists alike. She was also a staple of NYC who spread good will. My heart breaks for her family. Thank you, Kate, from one of the millions you made feel beautiful.— 💎 Lena Dunham 💎 (@lenadunham) June 5, 2018
Depression does not discriminate and comes without warning. RIP Kate Spade. Love to her family.National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 — josh groban (@joshgroban) June 5, 2018
Kate. 😢 You never know what someone is going through. Please call24/7 Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255 ❤ #katespade — Alyson Stoner (@AlysonStoner) June 5, 2018
Heartbroken to hear about Kate Spade. I hope she can be remembered for her legacy of creating a world of whimsy and making simple things feel special and beautiful. If you or a loved one are struggling with mental health, please know you don't have to do it alone | 1-800-273-8255— nicolette mason (@nicolettemason) June 5, 2018
Fashion can be a very lonely and isolating industry. The way the business discards people and things is tragic. Spread love. Always.— nicolette mason (@nicolettemason) June 5, 2018
Apart from celebrities and socialites, the world wide web in general also shared their thoughts on how to honor the late designer, but more than that, netizens shared their two cents on depression and suicide as a whole.My grandmother gave me my first Kate Spade bag when I was in college. I still have it. Holding Kate’s family, friends and loved ones in my heart.— Chelsea Clinton (@ChelseaClinton) June 5, 2018
I think it’d be amazing if the company that bought Kate Spade honored her by including inspirational notes in all their products now like “you matter” or “you are beautiful” to bring awareness to depression and mental health #KateSpade— Sarah (@triSarahtops825) June 5, 2018
Check on all of your friends. The "strong" ones. The extroverted ones. The introverted ones. The ones who are openly struggling. The ones who hint at struggling but won't admit it. The ones who are actively working to heal. The ones who have healed. All of them. #katespade— Angela Brown ✨ (@AngelaIRL) June 6, 2018
The next time someone confides in you about their depression, don't try to convince them to think positive or look on the bright side of things. Instead say, "I hear you. believe you. What do you need from me right now?"#KateSpade— Felicia Martinez (@LaMeraFeli) June 6, 2018
Among all the messages shared by people around the world, one post struck and made an impact the most. On June 6, facebook user, Claudia Herrera shared a very on point message that not only honored the designer but also faced the facts that mental illness is just as serious as any illness we are aware of. As of writing, the post has been shared 230,836 times and we wish and hope it could be shared more.#Suicide is not a choice. It happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain. It’s a symptom, not a decision. Very disappointed in much of the language used in coverage of #KateSpade’s death.— MH Media (@MHMediaCharter) June 6, 2018
*This article was originally published in RoundUp.PH
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